Friday, September 28, 2012

Another short tip

Look at everything from the slave's point of view. Think if what you write will turn on the slave you're looking to attract when you make a post, blog or anything. Look at your site from a slave's point of view. Would you be turned on or enjoy what you post as a slave?

Broke slaves useless?

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Are broke slaves truly useless? I know this is financial domination and all slave should tribute but broke slaves can be useful from sending you more slaves to their talents. As all slaves, you should have him fill out a slave application to find out if he is useful. This niteflirt message for only $3 will tell you how you can find use for broke slaves

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Slave Application

Learn about what questions you should ask on the slave application. Most dommes require their potential sub purchase a slave application before they consider them in order to get to know them and if they're worthy enough to train

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A slave application is a good way to figure out if the sub is sincere.

More free graphics




First PTV - Getting Started with a new slave

I have a few ladies email me asking how do I get started? How do I begin? They are so lost because they don't know how to begin a session with their slaves. This PTV will help you get started in the right direction from getting to know the slave to how to begin your first session.


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Monday, September 10, 2012

My first mistake

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On my last blog I stated I was thinking about selling extensive advice on Niteflirt. First, I wanted to make sure I wouldn't be wasting my time because I will be taking my time and work really hard on the advice.

In addition, I thought it would be nice just to have more than one input than just mine. I am thinking every Friday, Saturday OR Sunday I will have a weekly column where one girl can ask advice and share their experience or ask for input so you can hear advice from more than one girl or even hear advice from a sub's perspective if they wish to join in on the comments. You can be anonymous. For example, you can share your experience where it didn't go as you planned and ask for advice.

I will also be sharing mistakes I have made when I first started. Yes, I used to be a newbie and I made many mistakes. My first mistake was believing everything the sub had to say. "Wankers," as most dommes would call them, would lie just to get a quick wank and not follow through on what they said they would. I didn't get my first wanker experience until after a month of being a domme. I learned my lesson quickly and moved on. Don't let them fool you. There are steps you can take to prevent wankers. I will talk about that on another blog.

I also wanted to thank you for your support and I hope to help empower you in your journey of being a strong, independent woman.

Friday, September 7, 2012

Been Busy

I had a few unexpected personal problems and have received more emails that I have expected to receive. It seems like there are a lot of people who just are hearing about this fetish and want to know more. My main purpose of this blog is to help those are just entering know the basics and help guide a few step by step. Also, my purpose to educate the newbies and make them aware that this isn't a get quick rich scheme so they don't start the fetish with that assumption and don't start financial domination if that's all they want. I am trying to help everyone and reply to everyone. Those who I told that I will create graphics for I will. Email me (you know who you are). This blog is to help with basics. I was thinking about writing more some advice in more detail and sell them on Niteflirt as PTV's. They will be about $1-5 each. What do you think about that? I will still continue to blog and give basic free advice. Want to suggest a topic for my next blog? Email me your suggestion. I would prefer to give advice on something that is needed. Again, sorry if I miss your email my inbox is full and I am trying to reply to all or I will just give a blog advice if it's a frequently asked question.

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Advice for new subs

This blog is to help females in financial domination. I am doing something new. I am going to give some helpful hints for subs who are starting this fetish and who are interested in becoming a money slave. Many dommes have wrote blogs on how they should be approached. You should always follow their rules. You are serving them and you must obey them. Some of you make mistakes because you're new.

First, here are some DO NOT rules. DO NOT EVER:
  1. be disrespectful
  2. waste their time
  3. say your going to pay when you're not
  4. make empty promises
  5. top from the bottom
  6. be whiny
  7. demand for anything. You can try to ask or express your desire once.
  8. disappear when it's time to pay. If you feel you're no longer compatible: pay what you promise and let them know.
  9. never lie
  10. Don't use a lady's name without her permission. Don't say that you're owned or use her name in your username without her permission
Send a tribute before sending a message. Also, send a introduction. Don't expect her to know anything about you if you don't introduce yourself.

This is a just a short how to guide for slave. I might post more.

Learn about fetishes

First, you need to familiarize yourself with fetishes, kink, bdsm before you decide to start financial domination. Learn about female domination and female supremacy as well. The best way to do it is to sign up for fetish social sites and ask as many questions as you have. Another resource is google. Learn what fetishes you will enjoy and know your limits. Do not let a sub push you past your limits.

The main fetishes involved with financial domination are foot fetish, cuckolding, chastity, humiliation, tease and denial, cbt, orgasm denial, ass worship, goddess worship, forced intox, and many more!!!

I don't mind helping out ladies with a real interest in the fetish. This blog only shows a small amount of what you need to know...enough to let anyone who is interested in doing this fetish know that it's not a quick buck. Also, you cannot contact the sub first and beg for money. This is definitely not a get rich quick scheme. You will fail if that's all you're looking for. I hope that every girl who is thinking about starting financial domination will find this so they can know this. I will help girls who are truly into guiding them, getting started, images, clips, ptvs, sites and I will even make a couple graphics. I am not an expert in graphics. I am moderately good at it. I am doing this all for free because I believe all strong woman should stick together. Email me at findomhelp@yahoo.com for more information

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

You want to bank as a financial domme?

Obviously every woman who enters Financial Domination would love to receive thousands of dollars in tributes from their subs. Not every domme who enters will make bank. It comes easy to some because it's natural. Other people have to work hard on it. I will tell you give yourself three months before giving up. I would advise you to give up if you haven't made at least a thousand dollars within that three month time limit. I bet you would love know what they have that you don't have. There are few qualities the most successful girls has that HELPS them be as successful as they are today.

  1. Confidence is the most important thing. You know the saying confidence is sex. It's true. Men can tell when someone has confidence. I saw a study where two woman who were equally attractive go in a bar. The one with the most confidence got the most head turns. There was two other woman who one was more attractive but didn't have any confidence. The other one who was less attractive and had a lot more confidence got more attention. They can sense if you're confident in what you're doing. Don't let your lack of confidence ruin you.
  2. Personality is also very necessary! No one wants to serve someone who is boring. Be creative and exciting. Do put your slaves to sleep. They will leave you soon. You might have them hooked but they will not stay if they feel like you don't have a personality. Let your personality shine through your website, blog, clips and design. You need to stand out from all of those other hundreds of women in financial domination.
  3. Creativity! I know I mentioned creativity in personality but it's more than just personality. Creativity is having your own idea or using an old idea and turning it into something new. Don't copy other ladies ideas and work. It's a big rule not to copy anyone else. You will be called out and might as well crawl under a rock and disappear. Be creative in your assignments, graphics, sites, blog, clip's site, niteflirt and other social sites you use.
  4. Allure...make them want to approach you. You want to be approachable and never approach them. Create tantalizing photos and make them want to see more. You know the saying less is more? Have mystery. Have an attractive look.
  5. Risk taker. Entrepreneurs are risks takers. That's what you need to be. Yes, I am looking at this as a business for a second. It is like a business. Many of the slave are just customers and are not truly in the fetish so you need to look at it both ways. Don't be too afraid to try something new. Take the risk.
  6. The Look! You don't have to be skinny, long silky hair, big boobs and ass to be hot. You just have to have a look that will attract new slaves. You should always look nice in your photos. Being sexy will help lure them but you need the other qualities to keep them.
Want help getting started? Email me at findomhelp@yahoo.com and I will guide one special girl that I feel that deserves it. You must prove that you are not a waste of my time. First, make a niteflirt. It takes a while for it to be approved. I will need to see you on cam for one second to verify you are who you say you are because I am not going to help a fake out. I also make graphics so let me know

Monday, January 30, 2012

Ask Questions

Ask any questions you want about financial domination and I and anyone else who reads them will answer your questions