A few words of advice:
1. Do your research - Did you find someone and you are excited to contact her with questions immediately? Stop! They have instructions on their sites, blogs and more. You will be ignored if you act impulsively. Follow their instructions and get to know them through research. They do not want to answer questions that they have already put in writing for the public.
2. Send a gratitude before reaching out to them. They will notice if you had purchase their content, send gifts or tributes before contacting them. Don't expect anything for purchasing their content. That is for your enjoyment.
3. Be honest. In your introduction be honest about what you are desiring from this relationship. Do not ever lie even if it is to get their attention. You want to get the most experience. You will be wasting both of your time if you later find out it's not a good match because of something you weren't honest about.
4. know yourself. Explore your interest and what you are looking for. This is the part of the research. Knowing all of your fetishes will help both of you try to understand what will work best. Also try to determine your limits
5. Ways to find out if she is real: watch her videos, read, research. Does she have videos available? watch them because most of them will show she is the person you see in the pictures.
Getting her attention
Show you are worth of her attention in order to be accepted as one of her pets
Broke Slave you are not worthless
There are ways to you serve even if you are broke