Financial Domination for new Dommes and subs

Financial Domination for new Dommes and subs
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Where to begin? Begin with these Financial Domination PTV's. They are the basic findom guide payment buttons that will help you get started.

Putting yourself Out there
It's hard to get started and know where to begin. You feel you are ready to step into the Financial Domination world but where do you get started? Don't worry, I will guide you in the right direction.






Getting to know your Slave
You are at your first session with your slave and you don't know how to get started. I get the question several times. You have them hooked but now what do you do from here. You are at a writers block. This PTV is a quick and simple guide and how to






Creating your Inner goddess
Let your alpha female shine out. Confidence is the key. This reading will have some techniques on bringing out your inner goddess.






Clips - A few PTVs on Clips

Introduction to clips

I want you to start off with this small introductions to clips and where to get started with your clips. This is how to guide in getting started with your clips and



Maximizing clip profits

It takes marketing skills and hard work to produce that perfect clips and to maximize the most profit in your clips.


Getting to know the fetishes
There are many fetishes out there. I am going to go over the most known fetishes in Financial domination and show you how to profit from each fetish.



Sunday, October 6, 2013

Blackmail Fantasy

Someone asked me if blackmail is illegal and how they should approach the fetish. 

First, blackmail is illegal. Second, do not use blackmail as a punishment. 
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There have been cases where people have been in legal trouble because their sub decided to go to turn their domme in the authorities for blackmail or even using the card information given to them. Crossing that line between fantasy and reality is a problem when the reality ruins lives. 

To my second point, those that want to be blackmailed as a punishes are not the kind of subs that you want. You will be rewarding bad behavior. That is a red flag if they give the vibe. Set your boundaries right away. Again, do not reward bad behavior. The best thing to do is block them. Do not allow yourself to waste your energy on that behavior. It’s best not to encourage or entertain this behavior.

Many subs have ruined the fetish for both the sub and domme. Do your research and make sure that the sub who approaches you is legit before jumping in this fetish because their are major legal repercussions to this fetish. A slave who contacts you and says "blackmail me please" as his first sentence is definitely a "wanker" and should be ignored.

What you should not do
  1. Hack them 
  2. Use an or else kind of language 
  3. Use their card without permission 
  4. Threaten them
  5. Reach out to their friends and family to expose them
Ask yourself this question before acting: is this illegal or can I go to jail for doing this? The financial domination fantasy is popular because it’s the realest form of online domination. The blackmail fantasy should be different so no real lives will be ruined from either end. Use your creativity to make it feel as real as possible.

Edit: blackmail  should be consensual on both sides and is best when practiced as a fantasy. It should not be used as a punishment due to legal issues also it would attract the wrong kind of blackmail slave that will not pay just to be blackmail. Think about how you could ignite the thrill of blackmail through shame and a scenario you can make them feel ashamed if their family, friends and work were to discover their little secrets. Let them go Once they try to get blackmailed by breaking the rules. 

What do they like most about the blackmail fantasy? The feeling of being ashamed of their fantasies by those closest to them finding out. There are ways you can ignite that feeling that excites them without actually threatening them. Participate in some activities and give them assignments that is sure to excite them. Create the fantasy without crossing the line between reality and fantasy. 

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This PTV will give some precautions to take and what steps you should take before entering this fetish. For example, know their limits so you don't push him past his/her limits. Most people who got into trouble with blackmail is because they went too far and went past their limits. Please know their limits and respect it.

Disclaimer: Blackmail IS illegal. What slaves like about blackmail is the loss of control and power. They want to feel trapped and overpower and they feel like blackmail is the only way to feel that way. Don't jump into blackmail if you don't know what you're doing and you're new. Blackmail is a federal crime. There can be serious consequences if things go wrong. Many slaves have recently enjoyed luring dommes into blackmail and turning around and turning them into authorities. Some slaves are actually into blackmail in the beginning but they change their mind or the domme goes too far. Just remember your limits and your slaves limits, trust your instincts and know the slave before decide to participate in blackmail with him. Use your best judgement

 I am not a lawyer and cannot give legal advice or tips. Act with common sense.

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