Getting started

You are just in the scene and you don't know where to start and how to get yourself out there. There is one step that you need to do before you get started.

First advice is to do your research. You are doing well so far if you found this blog. Research financial domination through blogs, websites, etc for a few months before entering the scene. Studying financial domination is a good way to learn. Read about subs and dommes opinions about financial domination. Get into the subs mind and get to know what they like.

The best way to get started to to learn about bdsm, fetish, psychology, sociology, s/m, humiliation. Financial Domination is a fetish. You must know about fetishes before you can know about financial domination. Financial Domination is the ultimate form of servitude. They are relinquishing all of their will, mind and body to you. You will need to have the experience of being worshiped and served if you really want to experience financial domination.

You know who really reaps the true benefits of financial domination? Those who are truly into the fetish. It's something that you get or don't. It's one of the most extreme fetishes. Financial Domination can be a fetish alone, but it's more of sugarbaby/sugardaddy relationship: especially if you don't know what you're doing. The research and learning will be worth it for both you and your sub if you truly know what Financial Domination is and you truly experience. It's a real high that I can never get tired of.

Patience is the biggest key. You must have it or you will lose yourself and will never succeed.

Profile: Letting them get to know you part. What would you like to reveal about yourself when they first see you?

Below is a few pointers and questions you should ask yourself as you are creating the profile to introduce yourself.

Photos: Vanilla and some teasing photos. Be sure to look at the photos to make sure that there is no mess or something in the background that you don't want them to see

Getting started on your profile.

Tell them about yourself:

what kind of domme are you (sadistic? Sensual? Both?)

what are you into: fetishes

what are your limits?

your experience

why do you like financial domination? Why did you decide to "manipulate losers"

What are your criteria for serving you? What do you expect from the relationship

your stats

What do you expect?

What should they not do when approaching you: Yes this is necessary

Are you princess, goddess, mistress, Queen, etc. ( you will see what I mean when you're researching)

Initial Tribute: Do you expect them to tribute you before contact. I would

In addition, you might want to put some kind of task or directions for your slaves to do before contacting to make sure they are serious in serving you.

Your first slave contact: Get to know them. Know there limits and know their true limits. Get to know their fetishes: tease them with it, get inside their mind and seduce them (not right away). Make the first conversation no more than 30 minutes especially if they don't tribute. See if you have common interest. Do not accept them right away. Let them work for it. Plus, you might not be compatible.

Also, do not use your vanilla email. Make a separate email for Financial Domination for anything Fetish related and don't have that email connected to your personal email in any way.



Now you have their attention and you are ready to do your first session with them. I get several questions asking how to get started with a session. It's all about getting to know them.

 

Getting started and getting to know your slave (above)