Monday, June 27, 2016

Advice for subs

I got an email asking for advice for subs. They can't seem to get their attention. It's about approach and etiquette. You need to learn the right way to approach them. This is just a standard guideline since each and every lady is unique. It will teach you the minor details about etiquette and the right way to approach them.


How to get the most money of each slave?

Have you been getting money slaves but they have been spending so little? Do you want to learn how to hook them in and get them to spend a lot with you? Are you envious of the girls that get the big spenders? Some just don't have the money but other do. It doesn't come easy to them. They have mastered the art of seduction, financial domination and mind fuckery. It's an art to do this. Some come naturally while others need to master this art.

Saturday, December 19, 2015

Merry Christmas

I decided to change all of my payment buttons to only $1 as a Christmas gift until the end of the year.

What is your new years resolution as Financial Domme or a moneyslave?

Sunday, November 15, 2015

New dommes: what you should never do

Here are a couple of mistakes those who first hear about financial domination make when they first begin. I am here to help you so you don't make the mistake.

  1. Jumping in the fetish not knowing anything about the fetish. Financial domination is exciting if it's for you. Yes it is great having so much control and being spoiled. It's not just about the money and gifts. It's about the power you have. Don't dive in head first not knowing anything about the fetish. Take your time to get to know about the fetish. It's not all about the money. Jumping in demanding money will not work. You will just look foolish and waste your time and subs will know that you're just in it for the money and take advantage of your lust for money. They can tell that you are in it for the money and know that you will not give him the satisfaction that he is seeking if you are not in the fetish as much as him. 
  2. Approaching owned subs. Yes, when I first started I thought I saw a gold mine when I see dommes brag about their subs thinking this could be a easy way to find the true subs quickly. I know what you're thinking when you see a brag blog with access to the sub. I don't approach those subs and I don't play with subs who I know that are owned. You know why I don't do that? Because it is about RESPECT. We must respect each other. Trying to approach someone's pet is not how you will succeed as a findom.
  3. Allowing timewasters waste your time. They are called wankers. They get off on it. They are many reasons why they would waste your time: They get off on wasting your time, they are new as subs and chicken out at the last minute, they were fooled by a fake domme before, they might be real subs but think you're not a real domme, etc. Even those who have been in financial domination for a long time still have their time wasted every once in a while. One of the best excuses they use is that they to make sure you are the person in the photos. The best thing to do is prove that you are the person in your profile, website, etc for them to have easy access to. Having a clip store with several clips is good proof as well. Make sure you don't waste too much time before they tribute. 
  4. Copying another's work. Be creative. Don't use someone else's ideas for your clips, websites, etc. Again, this is about respect. 
  5. Acting like you are not new. Be honest about your time, have respect for your fellow Financial Dommes and have fun! 

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Keeping them Interested

So you reeled them in. Great! Now what? Now, you have to keep them interested before they are unhooked and move on. They are easily distracted so it's important to know ways to keep them interested before they disappear.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Short tip: be careful what you put out there

I have a few girls email me asking if people from school, work and family members/friends would be able to find their financial domination page. The answer is that it's a big possibility. Don't put what you don't want people to find. It's a possibility that it can haunt you one day. It could still be out there even if you delete it. Think before you put things like videos or photos out there. It's also a big privacy issue as well. You can have fun with costumes or disguises if you feel like you must or crop out your head if you really feel like you need to. There is nothing stopping your customers from posting your photos and videos that you sell on the internet for everyone to see on various vanilla sites. There the DMCA law but it could be too late even if you get it taken down because someone could have seen it or someone might saved it and posted it. It's really hard to find all photos of you around the internet.

Just think about what you put out there. Think if people would be able to recognize you easily. Is this what you really want the world to see? Many girls post photos and videos on their site where they are recognizable and they freak out when someone recognizes them. Just think about common safety and privacy rules and double check your public photos and videos if it's what you really want to see. Don't let people finding out discourage you. Just be extra cautious and make wise decisions.

Good luck