Merry Christmas

I decided to change all of my payment buttons to only $1 as a Christmas gift until the end of the year.

What is your new years resolution as Financial Domme or a moneyslave?

New dommes: what you should never do

Here are a couple of mistakes those who first hear about financial domination make when they first begin. I am here to help you so you don't make the mistake.

1. Jumping in the fetish not knowing anything about the fetish. Financial domination is exciting if it's for you. Yes it is great having so much control and being spoiled. It's not just about the money and gifts. It's about the power you have. Don't dive in head first not knowing anything about the fetish. Take your time to get to know about the fetish. It's not all about the money. Jumping in demanding money will not work. You will just look foolish and waste your time and subs will know that you're just in it for the money and take advantage of your lust for money. They can tell that you are in it for the money and know that you will not give him the satisfaction that he is seeking if you are not in the fetish as much as him. 
2. Approaching owned subs. Yes, when I first started I thought I saw a gold mine when I see dommes brag about their subs thinking this could be a easy way to find the true subs quickly. I know what you're thinking when you see a brag blog with access to the sub. I don't approach those subs and I don't play with subs who I know that are owned. You know why I don't do that? Because it is about RESPECT. We must respect each other. Trying to approach someone's pet is not how you will succeed as a findom.
3. Allowing timewasters waste your time. They are called wankers. They get off on it. They are many reasons why they would waste your time: They get off on wasting your time, they are new as subs and chicken out at the last minute, they were fooled by a fake domme before, they might be real subs but think you're not a real domme, etc. Even those who have been in financial domination for a long time still have their time wasted every once in a while. One of the best excuses they use is that they to make sure you are the person in the photos. The best thing to do is prove that you are the person in your profile, website, etc for them to have easy access to. Having a clip store with several clips is good proof as well. Make sure you don't waste too much time before they tribute. 
4. Copying another's work. Be creative. Don't use someone else's ideas for your clips, websites, etc. Again, this is about respect. 
5. Acting like you are not new. Be honest about your time, have respect for your fellow Financial Dommes and have fun! 

Keeping them Interested

So you reeled them in. Great! Now what? Now, you have to keep them interested before they are unhooked and move on. They are easily distracted so it's important to know ways to keep them interested before they disappear.

Findom on the colbert Report

I found this video and thought it was hilarious.

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Short tip: be careful what you put out there

I have a few girls email me asking if people from school, work and family members/friends would be able to find their financial domination page. The answer is that it's a big possibility. Don't put what you don't want people to find. It's a possibility that it can haunt you one day. It could still be out there even if you delete it. Think before you put things like videos or photos out there. It's also a big privacy issue as well. You can have fun with costumes or disguises if you feel like you must or crop out your head if you really feel like you need to. There is nothing stopping your customers from posting your photos and videos that you sell on the internet for everyone to see on various vanilla sites. There the DMCA law but it could be too late even if you get it taken down because someone could have seen it or someone might saved it and posted it. It's really hard to find all photos of you around the internet.

Just think about what you put out there. Think if people would be able to recognize you easily. Is this what you really want the world to see? Many girls post photos and videos on their site where they are recognizable and they freak out when someone recognizes them. Just think about common safety and privacy rules and double check your public photos and videos if it's what you really want to see. Don't let people finding out discourage you. Just be extra cautious and make wise decisions.

Good luck

Blackmail Fantasy

Someone asked me if blackmail is illegal and how they should approach the fetish. 

First, blackmail is illegal. Second, do not use blackmail as a punishment. 

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There have been cases where people have been in legal trouble because their sub decided to go to turn their domme in the authorities for blackmail or even using the card information given to them. Crossing that line between fantasy and reality is a problem when the reality ruins lives. 

To my second point, those that want to be blackmailed as a punishes are not the kind of subs that you want. You will be rewarding bad behavior. That is a red flag if they give the vibe. Set your boundaries right away. Again, do not reward bad behavior. The best thing to do is block them. Do not allow yourself to waste your energy on that behavior. It’s best not to encourage or entertain this behavior.

Many subs have ruined the fetish for both the sub and domme. Do your research and make sure that the sub who approaches you is legit before jumping in this fetish because their are major legal repercussions to this fetish. A slave who contacts you and says "blackmail me please" as his first sentence is definitely a "wanker" and should be ignored.

What you should not do

1. Hack them 
2. Use an or else kind of language 
3. Use their card without permission 
4. Threaten them
5. Reach out to their friends and family to expose them

Ask yourself this question before acting: is this illegal or can I go to jail for doing this? The financial domination fantasy is popular because it’s the realest form of online domination. The blackmail fantasy should be different so no real lives will be ruined from either end. Use your creativity to make it feel as real as possible.

Edit: blackmail  should be consensual on both sides and is best when practiced as a fantasy. It should not be used as a punishment due to legal issues also it would attract the wrong kind of blackmail slave that will not pay just to be blackmail. Think about how you could ignite the thrill of blackmail through shame and a scenario you can make them feel ashamed if their family, friends and work were to discover their little secrets. Let them go Once they try to get blackmailed by breaking the rules. 

What do they like most about the blackmail fantasy? The feeling of being ashamed of their fantasies by those closest to them finding out. There are ways you can ignite that feeling that excites them without actually threatening them. Participate in some activities and give them assignments that is sure to excite them. Create the fantasy without crossing the line between reality and fantasy. 

This PTV will give some precautions to take and what steps you should take before entering this fetish. For example, know their limits so you don't push him past his/her limits. Most people who got into trouble with blackmail is because they went too far and went past their limits. Please know their limits and respect it.

Disclaimer: Blackmail IS illegal. What slaves like about blackmail is the loss of control and power. They want to feel trapped and overpower and they feel like blackmail is the only way to feel that way. Don't jump into blackmail if you don't know what you're doing and you're new. Blackmail is a federal crime. There can be serious consequences if things go wrong. Many slaves have recently enjoyed luring dommes into blackmail and turning around and turning them into authorities. Some slaves are actually into blackmail in the beginning but they change their mind or the domme goes too far. Just remember your limits and your slaves limits, trust your instincts and know the slave before decide to participate in blackmail with him. Use your best judgement

 I am not a lawyer and cannot give legal advice or tips. Act with common sense.

Few things on safety

Many young girls enter the scene forgetting the possible safety repercussions of being an online financial dominatrix. Yes,  your safety can be at risk if you're not cautious or smart. There are many psychos on the internet. You have to be careful whenever dealing with strangers online even if you're a badass Dominatrix. I am going to talk about safety precautions you should take when it comes to safety.

Amazon Wishlist

The other day I got a question about amazon wishlists. This person didn't realize that a person can receive the shipping adress once they purchase something on amazon through third party shipping stores on amazon. Look at anyone's wishlist and you can see that Amazon does reveal the City, State and the recipient. First, you need to make sure that you have the "third party shipping option" unchecked when you edit the profile of your wishlist. Have your items shipped to a P.O box. It's more private than sending it to your home address even though the person can still wait by the post office to see you come and get your package. It's very unlikely. A better option is to accept E cards sent straight to your email. Your email address is the only information that they will have. You should have a separate email just for financial domination.

There are a few payment methods you shouldn't accept or only accept if you truly trust the person.

• Paypal- First, They DO NOT accept adult transactions. They haven't for a long time. Your personal information is easily available through this method. Try sending/receiving payment with a friend and family to see what information they have available. Too personal. I advise you to have a business account if you plan on using this with any stranger online: adult transaction or regular transaction.
• Western Untion: they need your real first and last name and city and state
• Bank transfer: ONLY with people you truly trust. Financial Slaves aren't USUALLY trustworthy

What are the best payment methods:

• Niteflirt: It's anonymous and it's through a trust third party store
• Clipstores: Clips4sale, Kinkbomb and other clipstores have added the tribute function in clip stores.
• E cards: Many stores have the e card option and all they need is your email

The above is only popular one's that I can think of at the moment. I will update this when I find more information and with more questions. Remember be safe and smart. Do you research before beginning. Not everyone can be successful in this. This isn't a get rich quick scheme. It's an actual fetish that many enjoy and I find that you can truly enjoy this fetish if you are genuinely interested and remain safe.