Beginner Safety Mistakes

I have started this blog to help guide new girls understand financial domination and help them understand the fetish so they can know what financial domination is and is not about so they can know if it right for them. Another main reason I started this blog is to educate them about the safety issues involved with financial domination so they don't have to learn the hard way. One thing each person should know is to understand online safety before engaging in Financial Domination. Please don't expose yourself to these dangers.

There are a lot of risks involved. The online world is very dangerous even if you are the one in charge. There is a lot of obsession involved in financial domination when you appear "unattainable" to them. It just takes one moment of anger from the subs to take them out of "sub space" and try to stalk you. I am not trying to scare you into believing all subs will come out to get you. That is not my goal. I am trying to help you understand the risks that could be involved and understand what you put out there.

I have written articles about safety but after monitoring I have seen so many girls make these small mistakes that lead them to their true identities being exposed where you can find their personal profiles, address, etc. They all make the same mistakes when they first start.

1. Amazon wishlist - you can see the name and city and state on the Amazon wishlist. Also, there is a risk that they can see the address that is attached to the wish list. Please be sure to add a P.O box out of your city or even just accept gift cards.
2. Email address - do not have your personal email address attached to anything related to financial domination. Create your own email address specifically just for financial domination and don't have it attached to your personal email in any form. Do not have anything with your real name sent to your financial domination site. Do not have your personal email address as a back up
3. Passwords - do not use the same passwords for everything especially for those link sharing sites. Some can be easily hacked and they can try to use that password for your other social sites
4. Social media sites - do not have them attached to your personal sites or connected if you want to keep your personal site separate from each other. Please be mindful of the personal stuff you share to make sure it doesn't lead to them discovering who you are on social media. For example, I have seen a girl talk about her old school and I was able to determine about that little information what town she was in and 
5. Website - using hosting sites can show the information about the owner of the site when someone searches the website. Make sure you use your business name whenever you purchase domain names so they cannot track your real name if they are researching your domain name. I have a project for you. Look up your website at your hosting site and see what information they show to anyone who looks it up. 
6. Pictures - be mindful of the pictures that you post. They can lead back to your real identity. Look at the background items in your picture. Do they have your personal information laying around? It's best to clean your area before taking pictures or videos and have an empty background other than props. 
7. Tribute - taking tributes from western union requires you to give out your information. It's a risk. I understand that it is convenient and you get 100% of tribute but please use good judgement. I see that some of the new girls openly uses western union for anyone. You have to give out your first name, city and state. If you live in a small town please use the closest big city. Paypal will show the name and email address connected to the paypay as well. In addition, paypal doesn't accept adult transactions. 
8. Talking about personal trips they are going. Yes it's exciting! I know to share this wonderful vacation you are going to. Guess what? That leaves you open to having them follow you on the trip. The best thing to do is not state exactly where you are going, the exact hotel, what pool you used especially before your vacation. The extra small details should be after your vacation and only those who you trust. 
9. Sharing personal details in your social media like how you days was, where did you go or any landmark could possibly expose your secret identity. 
10. Not separating your personal social from your financial domination sites completely. Make sure you have a business name, email address, and photos that are not used on your personal sites. Even photos you can do a web search to see if they are connected. 

These things are not off limits. Use your own judgement on what you feel comfortable using. These tips are for those who want to keep their personal separate. Please be mindful of your actions and practice safety protocols when you are first discovering yourself in the Financial Domination world. I hope these tips have helped you out. 

Introducing Soviet Mercedes

I have a great surprise for my readers. I have been talking about my point of view in financial Domination. Today, I would like to share someone else's point of view. I hope to share more of her very soon! I wanted to try something new and I hope you enjoy this! Please, email me at findomhelp@yahoo.com if you would like to submit your piece (Point of View, experience, questions). 

Without further ado...I introduce to you Soviet Mercedes!

My name is Soviet Mercedes. 

Born and raised in East Europe, traveled and lived all over the world. Currently living in Amsterdam, West Europe.

Being a full time Dominatrix with over 10 years of experience and having always been a bit sadistic and eager to make men work for me, I naturally rolled into the world of BDSM.

Now mind you, back in the days here in west Europe the online scene wasn’t as big as it was now. I have seen a huge growth when it comes to the online community and scene.

Starting off mostly with Real Life sessions in a physical Dungeon I slowly learned and experimented more and more with the psychology part of Power Exchange.

Very soon (and naturally) you find yourself in digital Power Exchange play, on an online platform, where distance becomes irrelevant. 

Before continuing I want to elaborate that there is a difference between being paid for my services and engaging in Financial Domination. Even though I will ALWAYS be paid for spending time on/with another, Financial Domination goes much further for me. 

Living and preaching Female Supremacy, I expect my followers and slaves to truly humble themselves and submit to a Higher Power (Me). Engaging in selfless acts, like sending Tributes and (Con)tributing to My life. Living in the world that we live in Power is Money. And Money means resources.. Since one can not GIVE me health, freedom or resources, they will have to contribute by handing me the means so *I* can get those myself, in a way that I see fit.

These can be as big ($2.000) or as small ($5) as fit to the individual. Someone who is a millionaire will not care about 5 dollars, therefor it will not feel as a sacrifice NOR as giving away Power.

However all the forms of currency are welcome and adding up in my life.

Money is a weird thing and it has a almost taboo-controversy attached to it.

I feel Financial Domination *can* be highly misunderstood, since it’s not a static thing but has branches spreading wide into other fetishes too. But it all comes down to Power.

Currently I am mostly expanding my online presence, and (forever) learning in translating my energy and my being into visuals and words. NiteFlirt is my biggest source of income, and I truly love the variety of clients and slaves that are on there.

Hoping we reach a day where everyone get paid for their time, I can only advice (for new-comers) to truly invest time into BDSM-dynamics and fetishes, in order to properly learn. This may cost some time, but in the end it will all be worth it and you’ll come out as an amazing Goddess, as I am still learning and expanding my knowledge myself too!

Love,

Soviet Mercedes

Visit her sites dominatrixsovietmercedes.com

Her Tribute Page FyouPayme.com

Sexualizing Financial domination

Financial domination is the ultimate sacrifice. The key to success in Financial Domination is to sexualize it.

 

Fall deeper into subspace - submission through objectifying and isolation

Have you had your grip on a slave who you had under your grip they started to tribute. They have tribute a small amount, they went further and gave another tribute. You saw that they opened that big tribute and all of a sudden...bam! They disappeared and they are now telling you NO! They have slipped out of sub space. You have lost them. That's a major lost. They were going to spend so much but they have lost their will to serve because they weren't that deep in their servitude to you. There were many distractions.

They weren't as willing as you thought. Are you willing to take the next step to get them to be your slave completely? It takes dedications from both ends. First, you need to isolate them from the world and make their world all about you. Their surroundings is all about them and that is the issue. Next, they need to be objectified. They are seeing themselves as a person with free will. Their only will needs to be about serving you.

 

Create your Inner goddess part three

Confidence is the key. It's the main key to be successful in Financial Domination. We are all goddesses. Someone of us are not allowing our inner goddess to shine as bright as others do. This PTV will help guide you in the write direction in your path to growth into becoming a goddess

Inner Goddess Part 3:

What do you like the most about yourself?

What are the greatest qualities that you want to have?

Halloween Treat

It's that time of the month. I going to give you a treat. Several Halloween themed PTV's and games that you can use:

1. All tricks no treats
2. Trick or Treat?
3.  Jack Off 
4. 31 days of halloween
5. Halloween photo set ideas
6. Fetish clips
7. Ways to get spoiled on halloween
8. Halloween Treats

Luxury spa day

In celebration of luxury day I wanted to tell you how I celebrated the day of luxury. The girls and I decided to spend a whole day to spoiling each other and spoiling ourselves. This experience has inspired me to create a day dedicated to this to remind all of us that we need a day to ourselves. I started with a big breakfast with the ones I love the most. We try to make a day of it. I went to a nice spa where you can spend all day. You can spend your time in the hot tub as you wait for your appointment. They have nice luxurious lotions, creams and fragrance you can try on. They also have hors d'oeuvres, spa water and calming music to relax anyone. Soft robes, towels and slippers were provided. There was even a feating place so you can relax after the massage.

After the massage, we went out for brunch. There was a plethora of items from different variety. From different kinds of pancakes, waffles, fruits, juices, donuts. I could customize my own omelet, french toast and so much more. There was also endless mimosas.

After brunch, we went shopping at our favorite stores. We decided that it was time to update our wardrobe. We got a whole wardrobe from shoes, lingerie and jewelry. We got a makeover at our favorite makeup counters.

We went to our favorite salon and changed our hair from style color and highlights.

We finished the night with dinner and a movie and it was the perfect ending.

Luxury day shouldn't be just one day of the year. It's just a reminder to treat yourself and have others spoil you. Remember, ladies indulge in the finer things in life.