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Everyone please welcome back our guest blogger Soviet-Mercedes. She is a returning guest and will be a recurring guest. I am excited about this post because it sends a positive message. 

Please send me an email for any inquiries about becoming a guest writer. 

Visit her sites listed at the end of the blog.

Hello My fellow Goddesses!

As many have been asking Me about My work and how to get started, I figured I’ll answer here what I tell them all.

Echoing all these beautiful posts already written here, I can not emphasize this enough:

This is not an easy and get rich quick-kind a thing.

If you think you are going to be an exception of that, I am afraid you will be wasting your precious time.

But onward from here, my main tips would be:

1.      -Understand the fetish that you cater for. Read up on it. Practice. Explore

2.      -Treat this like a business (even if you aren’t one).  The more serious your approach, the more serious your results.

3.      -Be patient! I know it can feel like forever, but in your downtime there are plenty of things to do such as working on you (and your brand), reading up and practicing on your knowledge or technology and even things such as making pictures you can upload later!

4.      -Try not to get stuck in the negative things and setbacks. You will have your time wasted, you will make mistakes and you will wish you had done things differently. That is ok! It is all a part of the process

5.      -Most importantly: do not compare yourself to others; realizing what others show online is glamour and glitter, however most of the top Dominatrix’ have been at it for many years.

Allow yourself to be a beginner

The last thing I have to say is: Good luck and also ENJOY!!!!

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What to do before putting yourself out there?

Stop right there! Not another move! 

There are things that you need to consider before putting yourself out there. There first impression is very important. You want to create a positive everlasting first impression in the financial domination world. It can either break or make you. You need to be prepared before you decide you put yourself out there. You want to be ready. Have everything looking good. It's important if you want to maximize your profits.

Before putting yourself out there

This is a guide on what you need from the beginning and prepare so you can maximize your profits.

It's imperative that you are prepared. You have all the content that's needed. You do not want to present a blank page. You want to have your whole story out there. Have a lot of content out there so you can make more money and have more stuff to sell from the beginning.

What do the subs like about financial domination?

Let's all be honest with ourselves for just one minute. What excites us, the domme, about Financial Domination? It's the money and gifts. Receiving money from our subs as a form of appreciation or a nice little surprise gift is always a great bonus! The bigger the money the better...right? It's not just the money for me. It's about what the money represents to me. It represents their sacrifice! It's about their total submission and servitude! The sacrifice of money turns me on because of the symbolism of it.

Now take all of that thrill and extra symbolism away...BOOM! The thrill is gone. It means nothing to me. There is no relationship between me and the sub. I will get bored. Yes, the money is great but I always want submission behind the money.

We have looked at the dommes perspective of the relationship. Now let's look at the slave's perspective and what makes them tick.

The sub is in it because of the thrill as well. It's a mutually beneficial relationship. They are in sub space. A certain phrase, image or action put them in sub space and anything can bring them out of it. When they are in sub space, they are more open to you as a domme and are more desperate to go deeper in sub space.

Make them beg to pay Niteflirt PTV
 - Get them in sub space

What turns them on about financial domination? It's about the power exchange. They want a strong, confident woman that has the power and that can easily destroy them or manipulate them. Being confident is definitely not being desperate and begging for money.

What do subs desire? It's about confidence! You don't have it? Get it or you will not be successful! Start off by reading my PTV "Creating your inner goddess" Confidence illuminates your beauty.

Why Money? The ultimate submission is what they desire. They want to sacrifice for their goddess and worship them. Their goddess to them is unattainable. They want them to control them and they want it to feel as real as possible. Sacrificing their money is real to them and it's real to you as well. They love to see what you are using their money on so they can know how they affected their life in a positive manner. It's the closest they will get to you.

They might even want to go deeper and have you control their finances and keep track of their spending habits and make them cut down on their luxuries.

It's about a connection to them based on what they are currently seeking. Don't think that any sub that has spent a lot on someone will automatically spend on you. They have reached a connection and she has worked really hard to get him into her sub space. Check Out my Payment button on objectifying and isolating them as an example.

It's also about sex! Sex sells. They love the sexualization of Financial Domination. Sex and money go great together. They little phrases or images that turns them on. Each slave is different but the main reason they are into financial domination is because it turns them on. The act of ultimate sacrifice turns them on. It's starts with that one moment at the strip club and they want more.

The relationship. It's about the connection. They want to build a long term relationship...not all. Some have felt this connection and are willing to build a relationship. This will be the best relationship that they have ever experience. Keeping your slave Niteflirt PTV talks about building relationship and keeping a rapport.

Sexualizing Financial domination

Financial domination is the ultimate sacrifice. The key to success in Financial Domination is to sexualize it.

 

Halloween Treat

It's that time of the month. I going to give you a treat. Several Halloween themed PTV's and games that you can use:

1. All tricks no treats
2. Trick or Treat?
3.  Jack Off 
4. 31 days of halloween
5. Halloween photo set ideas
6. Fetish clips
7. Ways to get spoiled on halloween
8. Halloween Treats

Becoming successful

What makes a new domme successful? What changes someone to become a newbie to a pro or from unsuccessful to top ranking? What are the attributes that make them shine above the rest? What do they do that you aren't doing?

I know we all want to be the best and earn as much as we can without wasting our time. I know our time is precious. There are some "hidden secrets" That these more successful girls know that you aren't aware of

There are a lot of failures and very few triumphs for most of us. They have some kind of advantage over you because they have qualities of a successful Financial Domination Goddess, princess, Mistress or whatever your title is. Yes, there are qualities that can make you successful. You can obtain them if you truly desire it.

My blog has a lot of tips on time management and they are very informational because we never want to waste our time trying to succeed if it isn't working. Time Management skills is imperative to gain a return on investment. 

Make yourself known. You are not going to attract anyone if you do not put yourself out there and create a presence. 

This PTV has tips on what qualities the successful Dommes have, the most important tip and how to apply it

My creating your inner goddess series has some great information to create your inner goddess and glow within

Make him beg to pay

Control his mind and wallet by making him associate paying with pleasure and not paying with pain. Have him build up that urge and desire to give you his money. Tease him immensely to the point he will beg. The hottest part of financial domination is control of everything. Have him under your control where he will be begging you to deposit money into your bank account. It's all mindfuckery and total control. Do you have what it takes to get him into sub space? Control his cock and you can control his mind and wallet. Make him feel pleasure when it comes to spoiling you

 

What is his desires? Urges? What does he yearn most? What makes him weak?

Making the most profit from your clip

Yes, we love the sound of money coming in each way. You know the income flow you will have in financial domination is selling your clips. They want a taste and are willing to pay for that. That pocket change adds up especially if you create the right content and market your content right. Of course, that big spender is good when they come every now and then but you want to earn some extra $money$ while you are waiting...right? It takes the right content, knowledge and marketing tools to be able to attract and retain attention. Not only do you want them to buy your clip, but you want them to come back and buy more. I will help and guide you in the right direction to create those loyal subs so you can get the most profit from your clip.

Let's say you attract all of these subs to look to see that you are selling your stuff. What are you doing to get their attention even more to make the purchase? The content is just as important as the advertising. Also, there is a whole web of subs that would be interested in the fetish you are catering to. It's important to reach out to every one of them. How are you going to make sure you are utilizing everything to reach the world wide web to let them know you have product that they are interested in buying. Okay you got them to try to purchase and try your product. Is the content good? Are they going to enjoy it? You want to make sure they reach their satisfaction so they come back to make sure they buy your new stuff. Make sure you create a high percentage of people who buy your product vs those who looked at it and those who remain loyal. The key is research, plan, create and advertise. This PTV will guide you through each of those steps.


 

What's so sexy about Financial domination?

It's the total control of having total control or giving total control. It's about complete and total submission and giving it away. Financial Domination always existed even though it wasn't called that. It's so easy to get lost in the world. It's about real sacrifice. Once you enter a real relationship, you will be able to feel a satisfaction from both sides. We all love power. It's very important. These days, Money is what represents real power. Handing over that money is what symbolizes giving up that power. It's really hard to do but it is also sexually thrilling. It's what's so exciting the most. Seeing your power grow as someone else relinquishes it over to you and to have complete control of someone else. Not only do you control his money but you control everything else as well: his activities, orgasms and much more. This is what turns me on about Financial Domination...it's all about POWER! Total and Complete control! And them submitting fully to your will. It's a thrill and I LOVE IT!

Using tease and denial to get in his mind

"Seduce him with what he desires more and lure him into the edge. What does he desire the most? What makes him weak? Use his weakness to your advantage"



Figure out what makes him tick. Get into his mind and make him fully submit to him. The best way to control his finances is to control his orgasms. Once you have that control then you are in his mind and he is yours for the taking. They are so easily manipulated when they are horny. That is why the art of tease and denial is a important art to learn. I have input a scenario in this Niteflirt Pay to View so you can see it play out in action.

Updates

The $1 deal is over. I extended it longer than I stated. I will do this at the beginning of each year. The prices are up to $2 dollars. I am happy that I am able to help new people who are curious about Financial Domination so they can get an understanding of what it is before they jump in and make sure they are being safe when they are practicing instead of making assumptions and being unsafe. Please read this post if you are a first time reader to get some tips on safety. Those who have advice to add to this post let me know and I will give you credit. The best place to reach me is through niteflirt.

I was thinking about have a guest advice column to add more content. This blog is advice from my own experience but I know everyone has different experiences and advice to offer. I will have a new guest blogger that I will feature and you can promote yourself as well. I will give you credit and you can add any links you like. I will add your post just the way you write it so make sure you write the way you want viewers to see.

It's takes hard work to get started

First, I would like to say that my email is currently unavailable and I am working on that. You can contact me through my niteflirt in the mean time. The only thing with niteflirt is I cannot send you links to outside sources or their competition. It is against their terms. I can help you with niteflirt through there. 

I have been asked to explain what they need to do to get started and how long it takes to get yourself out there. It is hard work. It is not easy money fly in your lap work. You have to be able to put in hours a day in order to get yourself noticed. Okay, your noticed...what do you have for them? How can you separate yourself from your competition. Yes, I say competition even I feel like we are like sisters. Please do not ever get catty when you started. So I am going to explain to you the hard work.

First, you have to have content before you put yourself out there. You have to brainstorm on the outfits, pictures, clips, blogs and sites. You want to make sure you have rich content. Creating and editing these contents takes hours for me. I recommend you create the content before you think about making your presence. You have to think about what you are going to say. You have to design your content and your website or find a designer. I like to make an animated graphics for my clips. You have create payment buttons, banner to use for advertisement in different sizes and introduction pages. It takes me an hour to write a blog. I signed up for many fetish sites and clip site in order to create a more following. Every person uses different sites and you can reach out to more people doing that.

The fun part was creating wish list and a tribute page to let them know how they can spoil me. You really want to make this page pop

I also took time to create rules, introductions, slave application, etc. I have it available where those who are interested know what they need to do in order to get my attention before they approach me. Those who don't follow will not get my attention.

Now you have to work on the social media marketing and decide which sites you want to market your sites and contact every single one of them. They would want your put their banner on their site so you need put your banner their. You also have to sign up for different social media platform and participate in order to get noticed. Think of good keywords to use for what you are trying to attract.

I spend a lot on social media sites to put myself out there when I have a new clip, journal, payment button.

Creating PTVs take a while because I am working on creating an interaction and making a fun game with each PTV and putting photos in them and keep them playing and paying. Brainstorming each payment button takes a long time as well because I create a few for each niteflirt game.

So how long do I put in my work a day? I spend at least three hours making clips, taking photos, writing journals, tweeting, updating my site, uploading my clips to different platforms, creating graphics for my clips and marketing myself. The beginning part was the most time consuming but I found it enjoyable. Do you think you can put this much time in becoming successful?

I spend over two hours creating new content, an hour editing it, thirty  minutes writing descriptions, two hours putting all together, advertising and creating teasers. This is all in a days of work. The rest of the week is about interaction and brainstorming for the new week.

Advice for subs

I got an email asking for advice for subs. I haven't forgot about you. I have created a PTV based on many frequently asked questions. I am also creating a sub corner where I will have resources for you. More to come for you.

 
 
I understand how hard it can be to find the right one to serve. It's harder to get her attention than finding her. You met the girl of your dreams and want to serve her but you do not want to disappoint her. First impressions are very important and they will stick. She will remember your first interaction so you want to make it great and everlasting. 

How to get the most money of each slave?

Have you been getting money slaves but they have been spending so little? Do you want to learn how to hook them in and get them to spend a lot with you? Are you envious of the girls that get the big spenders? Some just don't have the money but other do. It doesn't come easy to them. They have mastered the art of seduction, financial domination and mind fuckery. It's an art to do this. Some come naturally while others need to master this art.