It’s about the skills, desire and hard work

 First, I wanted to say that you are all gorgeous! You are beautiful! Your lack of success in Financial is not about your looks. It’s about your authority. It can be discouraging seeing successful dommes get compliments about their looks. I get a lot of emails asking me if you have to be beautiful or if ugly dommes can strive in this community. I need to reiterate this - you ARE beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Those that have made statements against your looks are trying to bring you down so that they can get what they want from you. Do not listen to them. Block them for your sanity. It breaks my heart heart to hear these young girls feel as if they are not pretty enough.

There is one thing that I need to implement into your head even if I have to smack it into you. Do NOT compare yourself to anyone else! It will affect your work, productivity and confidence. Focus on you and your hard work connected with skills and natural ability will lead you to grow and become successful. 

My blog is not a get quick rich scheme to become successful in Financial Domination - it is a guide to get started to inspire you and to also give you tips in safety 

You know what creates success? Talent + skills + confidence + hard work + consistency + drive + natural dominance + creativity +  true desire to be part of the community and many more. This is not something that you can achieve overnight. Skill is something that is built over time and takes practice.  

Another good thing to think about before starting my guide is if you are willing to put in the hard work to get where you want. Think about the whole crew that it takes to make a movie: the writer, producer, director, star, creative and other team members it takes to create a movie. You will be doing all of that work. There are also other tasks you should consider: marketer, blog writer, social media manager, seo, networker, photographer,  content creator, creating profiles to name just a few. 

Just remember that your success is not about how hot you are. It’s about your natural ability and hard work you are willing to put into it. All of these girls work hard to get where they are. My guide is only meant to get you started and learn about the fetish so you can get started. Financial Domination is not for everyone but remember that you are gorgeous!

How to maximize your profits during the holidays

 The holidays are closer than you think. It the time that you should be working the hardest. The earning potential and opportunities are the highest. This is the time to network. Create a plan and market yourself through several platforms for each project. 

Buy now to start on your holiday earnings 

Please read the safety tips before anything else

 As always, all safety tips are free. Most of these rules can be applied to any online situation. It’s always good to be smart. I have seen many new girls enter the scene and the worst thing you can do is enter not having the knowledge about how to keep yourself safe online in any one line situation . The other worse thing you can do entering the online financial domination scene is thinking this is a get rich quick scheme. It takes hard work, consistency, the actual love for the fetish, and a certain kind of talent. I try to stress that this advice is not advice to get rich quick but to help guide you in the right direction and understand the fetish better. 

I have been inactive for a while as well as my email. This has caused my email address to become shut down. I haven’t tried to log in so the email address in my blog is currently not working.

Also, please feel free to go to the safety post and share any tips or your experience with safety to help out the girls. If anything, safety tips should be open to share.

Soviet mistress

Everyone please welcome back our guest blogger Soviet-Mercedes. She is a returning guest and will be a recurring guest. I am excited about this post because it sends a positive message. 

Please send me an email for any inquiries about becoming a guest writer. 

Visit her sites listed at the end of the blog.

Hello My fellow Goddesses!

As many have been asking Me about My work and how to get started, I figured I’ll answer here what I tell them all.

Echoing all these beautiful posts already written here, I can not emphasize this enough:

This is not an easy and get rich quick-kind a thing.

If you think you are going to be an exception of that, I am afraid you will be wasting your precious time.

But onward from here, my main tips would be:

1.      -Understand the fetish that you cater for. Read up on it. Practice. Explore

2.      -Treat this like a business (even if you aren’t one).  The more serious your approach, the more serious your results.

3.      -Be patient! I know it can feel like forever, but in your downtime there are plenty of things to do such as working on you (and your brand), reading up and practicing on your knowledge or technology and even things such as making pictures you can upload later!

4.      -Try not to get stuck in the negative things and setbacks. You will have your time wasted, you will make mistakes and you will wish you had done things differently. That is ok! It is all a part of the process

5.      -Most importantly: do not compare yourself to others; realizing what others show online is glamour and glitter, however most of the top Dominatrix’ have been at it for many years.

Allow yourself to be a beginner

The last thing I have to say is: Good luck and also ENJOY!!!!

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Practice BDSM without the financial domination

This is part of your research stage. First, you must learn about yourself in the BDSM world and learn what kind of style.

There are sites like collarme.com (not a good site for financial domination) and fetlife.com that you can learn and practice your skills. Sometimes it's good trying to be a switch to try to get into the sub's perspective. This is a great way to expand your dominant side and learn about new fetishes without the pressure. You don't have to have your Financial Domination persona on those sites since you are in the research stage and are trying to find yourself. Being a sub helps you get into their head better and understand them. It's like starting from the bottom at a job and moving up. You understand your subordinates better when you were in their shoes  which will make you a better manager vs. those who just start as a manager.

You usually want to not try to mix your findom persona with those you are trying to experiment with especially if you are not aware of what you are doing. You are going to make mistakes and you don't want to have your findom persona attached to your mistakes

Financial Domination is the most extreme for of commitment from the submissive. You must learn about the other steps before going professional. Learn about the total power exchange dynamics that comes into play when you are taking control. This is best if you are not used to being in control and need to get in touch with your dominant side.

Try not to mix financial domination with your learning experience until you are done with your training period and introductory period into the femdom world. There are several social media sites and forums to meet like minded people to help you explore the fetishes that come before financial domination. You might be able to graduate the subs you find in your learning experience into financial domination if they are interested.

Good luck in your learning experience.

What to do before putting yourself out there?

Stop right there! Not another move! 

There are things that you need to consider before putting yourself out there. There first impression is very important. You want to create a positive everlasting first impression in the financial domination world. It can either break or make you. You need to be prepared before you decide you put yourself out there. You want to be ready. Have everything looking good. It's important if you want to maximize your profits.

Before putting yourself out there

This is a guide on what you need from the beginning and prepare so you can maximize your profits.

It's imperative that you are prepared. You have all the content that's needed. You do not want to present a blank page. You want to have your whole story out there. Have a lot of content out there so you can make more money and have more stuff to sell from the beginning.

What do the subs like about financial domination?

Let's all be honest with ourselves for just one minute. What excites us, the domme, about Financial Domination? It's the money and gifts. Receiving money from our subs as a form of appreciation or a nice little surprise gift is always a great bonus! The bigger the money the better...right? It's not just the money for me. It's about what the money represents to me. It represents their sacrifice! It's about their total submission and servitude! The sacrifice of money turns me on because of the symbolism of it.

Now take all of that thrill and extra symbolism away...BOOM! The thrill is gone. It means nothing to me. There is no relationship between me and the sub. I will get bored. Yes, the money is great but I always want submission behind the money.

We have looked at the dommes perspective of the relationship. Now let's look at the slave's perspective and what makes them tick.

The sub is in it because of the thrill as well. It's a mutually beneficial relationship. They are in sub space. A certain phrase, image or action put them in sub space and anything can bring them out of it. When they are in sub space, they are more open to you as a domme and are more desperate to go deeper in sub space.

Make them beg to pay Niteflirt PTV
 - Get them in sub space

What turns them on about financial domination? It's about the power exchange. They want a strong, confident woman that has the power and that can easily destroy them or manipulate them. Being confident is definitely not being desperate and begging for money.

What do subs desire? It's about confidence! You don't have it? Get it or you will not be successful! Start off by reading my PTV "Creating your inner goddess" Confidence illuminates your beauty.

Why Money? The ultimate submission is what they desire. They want to sacrifice for their goddess and worship them. Their goddess to them is unattainable. They want them to control them and they want it to feel as real as possible. Sacrificing their money is real to them and it's real to you as well. They love to see what you are using their money on so they can know how they affected their life in a positive manner. It's the closest they will get to you.

They might even want to go deeper and have you control their finances and keep track of their spending habits and make them cut down on their luxuries.

It's about a connection to them based on what they are currently seeking. Don't think that any sub that has spent a lot on someone will automatically spend on you. They have reached a connection and she has worked really hard to get him into her sub space. Check Out my Payment button on objectifying and isolating them as an example.

It's also about sex! Sex sells. They love the sexualization of Financial Domination. Sex and money go great together. They little phrases or images that turns them on. Each slave is different but the main reason they are into financial domination is because it turns them on. The act of ultimate sacrifice turns them on. It's starts with that one moment at the strip club and they want more.

The relationship. It's about the connection. They want to build a long term relationship...not all. Some have felt this connection and are willing to build a relationship. This will be the best relationship that they have ever experience. Keeping your slave Niteflirt PTV talks about building relationship and keeping a rapport.