Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Short Tip #1

Do not copy other's work and claim it as your own. Many new dommes think they can find the easy way of creating a profile by finding a top dommes profile and copy it or copy their persona. Other dommes think they can copy a top domme in order to be successful just like them. NO! This will not work. Subs will find this and know you are not being you and let the domme know. You will be blacklisted. You do not want to start out that way. The sub wants to get to know YOU! The domme was successful because she of her creativity. Find something and make it your own. Be an innovator.

Niteflirt, clips4sale,etc and Financial Domination Social Sites

There are social sites for fetishes and financial domination. The first site you want to join is Fetlife: it's not exclusive for financial domination but it will help you learn about fetishes, bdsm, etc. You need to know about fetishes and the psychology of fetishes in order to understand Financial Domination.

Other Social Sites: Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Findoms.com, livejournal, etc.

Niteflirt
Niteflirt is a phone site that many dommes use to talk to their slaves. Be sure to learn their TOS before signing up. They don't have to know your number in order to use this. It's through a third party company. It's a great way to earn better income and connect better with your slaves. You can also go on cam while talking to them. What can you sell through niteflirt? Photos, videos, tasks and anything you can think of. Be creative, have fun and use your own ideas!

MyPhoneSite
Is a new phone site just like niteflirt.

Clips4sale
Clips4sale is the first clips sites before other clip sites was created. Yes, it does give you less percentage, but they give you more customers and viewers. What do you do with clips4sale? It's like a cam session. You make it feel real like you're actually sitting right in front of them and giving them orders. They also have an image4sale section. It's up to you to decide which fetishes you enjoy and what kind of clips you will make. Make it your own. Do not copy other girls clips.

Clip Image Preview: Find a Gif Generator and find the best part of a clip to create an GIF image. Yes, the clipstores choose random photos, but they do not pick the best scenes of the clips. You want them to see you at your best in your clip: not when you're blinking.

Kinkbomb
Kinkbomb is another clips site which you can sell your clips. It allows you to receive tribute through there. I will let other girls tell you what they think about kinkbomb. They do allow tributes and give a bigger percentage.

Clipvia
Clipvia is new clip store. Their tribute percentage is 90%. I haven't heard any complaints so far. They are having a good start.

Blogs: You will have to have a blog so people could learn about you. Many subs use blogs to help them decide if they want to serve that person.

Top Blogs: Livejournal, blogger, wordpress and sensual writer. You can even have all and just copy and past one post in each blog if you want to go through all of that trouble

Twitter: Twitter helps you connect better with your followers. It's also the best way to make friends with other dommes. You can also promote your links: blogs, wishlist, clipstore, niteflirt, etc.


This PTV below will help you learn how to put yourself out there as a financial domme

Getting started

Research financial domination through blogs, websites, etc for a few months before entering the scene. Studying financial domination is a good way to learn. Read about subs and dommes opinions about financial domination. Get into the subs mind and get to know what they like.

The best way to get started to to learn about bdsm, fetish, psychology, sociology, s/m, humiliation. Financial Domination is a fetish. You must know about fetishes before you can know about financial domination. This fetish is the ultimate form of servitude. You will need to have the experience of being worshiped and served if you really want to experience financial domination.

You know who really reaps the true benefits of financial domination? Those who are truly into the fetish. It's something that you get or don't. It's one of the most extreme fetishes. Financial Domination can be a fetish alone, but it's more of sugarbaby/sugardaddy relationship: especially if you don't know what you're doing. The research and learning will be worth it for both you and your sub if you truly know what Financial Domination is and you truly experience. It's a real high that I can never get tired of.

Patience is the biggest key. You must have it or you will lose yourself and will never succeed.

Profile
Photos: Vanilla and some teasing photos
Getting started on your profile.
Tell them about yourself:
what kind of domme are you (sadistic? Sensual? Both?)
what are you into: fetishes
what are your limits?
your experience
why do you like financial domination? Why did you decide to "manipulate losers"
What are your criteria for serving you?
your stats
What do you expect?
What should they not do when approaching you: Yes this is necessary
Are you princess, goddess, mistress, Queen, etc. ( you will see what I mean when you're researching)
Initial Tribute: Do you expect them to tribute you before contact

In addition, you might want to put some kind of task or directions for your slaves to do before contacting to make sure they are serious in serving you.

Your first slave contact: Get to know them. Know there limits and know their true limits. Get to know their fetishes: tease them with it, get inside their mind and seduce them (not right away). Make the first conversation no more than 30 minutes especially if they don't tribute. See if you have common interest. Do not accept them right away. Let them work for it. Plus, you might not be compatible.

Also, do not use your vanilla email. Make a separate email for Financial Domination

Getting started and getting to know your slave (above) 

Safety

First, you need to think about safety before becoming an online Financial Domme. There is a lot to consider before you step your feet in the water, but safety is one of the first things you should consider.

First, I am going to say this before I give any pointers. This is not a get rich quick scheme. If you're in this just for that than you will lose your time and gain no money. You cannot be a financial domme just sitting here saying "gimme, gimme, gimme because I am a princess and I deserve it." I am sorry but it doesn't work that way. I am not trying to create an insta domme. I am trying to guide you a little bit to help you take the first step. Many girls learn about it and sign up a few seconds later creating and think that the money will come crawling to them. You will look like an idiot and will have to work hard to prove that you are truly in it for the right reason. In addition, the subs will see that and take advantage of you. These guides are only for those who are truly interested in the fetish.

You will want to hide your real identity and make sure it's impossible to find out who you are. A lot of young girls enter and they use their real name or real address in their wishlist, bio, alias, etc. Do not give out any information that would be able to be used to find you. Even top dommes who have been around for a long time are easy to find. I have found a few. No, I am not going to say who and what is is. I am not here to expose anyone.

The first thing you need to do is create a p.o box. Yes, get a p.o box in the next town, if possible. You need to have this if your going to have a wishlist. Some third parties outside of Amazon share your address (for both the sub and domme). This is a warning to both.

Paypal doesn't accept adult transactions, but I know new people who enter the scene will use it anyway so I will say this: Use a business account so you can have a business name and do not use your real name and address. I strongly suggest you to use Alertpay, Greendot, Kinkbomb, Clipvia or Niteflirt as top tribute opportunities. Alertpay is same as Paypal: Use business account: It's free! In addition, it's anonymous for both. Also, be aware of western union: you will have to use your real name.

So, you already know you might want to be a domme and afraid of people finding out your true identity? Create a fake real personality. Don't tie that with your domme account, but leave hints to that fake real person accidentally on purpose. You're confused? Create a mylife, myspace, classmates, twitter, etc with your real pictures but under a made up name. Have some picture of you partying. Have you or are you going to use some regular photos in your Domme profiles? Put those in your fake real profile. They will find your fake real profile easily if they decide to find you and they will stop at that. I know some might disagree with this, but trust me: former subs might have a grudge or crazy stalkers. A few dommes have been a victim to this. You do not want this to happen to you. I can already hear a few dommes ask WTF is she thinking. I am not helping them create fake content dommes. Many create fake profiles because they don't want people to find them out. In addition, it will be easier to make it believable that someone else is using your photos if a friend or family member happen to stumble upon your financial domination personality.


Photos
Go to tineye.com when and check to see if a photo you are using will connect you with your real myspace, facebook, twitter, etc before using it in your domme profile.

Search Engines
Try to make your real name and personable unable to find through search engines. Never know when your real name will be found. Use only First name initial and last name initial.

There are many things to consider as a post. This is just a starting guide. The rest is for you to find out through experience and research